Truth

All I can offer in life is the truth. It's up to you to appreciate and accept it. I can't make that happen. It is the liars that manipulate things to make a fictional truth. It is the liars that seek to manufacture a truth. The truth stands on its own and is its own merit, the lie needs a reason to exist. The lie is seductive and beckons closer. The truth? It's there. It's there for you to take it, accept it, believe it. The lie needs to try hard to be accepted because it's a falsehood. On it's own , you would know it as such.

I'm sorry, Diana. I can only present the truth. The seductive lie is for you to withstand. When you overcome it, I know you will be stronger to the Roman Goddess Diana, the one of war. If you succumb to it, I know that your fate is nothing more than darkness and abuse.

I tried my best. I did. Truth shines on its own, I can only offer that. I can't color anything to look pretty. I can't make the truth look better than the lie. I don't have that kind of skill. If I did, trust me I would. But YOU have to chose it on your own. YOU have to attribute this to yourself and use that to grow.

This is the kind of love I can give my friend. To watch her become all that she can, and to become revolted at the bondage from one who means nothing but ill.

So I know bondage. Cool. Let me tell you a little about it. The sub GIVES her power to the dom. The dom never takes it. The understanding is that the dom CARES for her, and will never abuse her with his power. And the dom? The dom always seeks to have the sub push her limits, to become stronger than she ever thought possible. It is THAT which makes BDSM awesome. It's the trust and the love involved.

When the sub misplaces her trust, bad things happen. It always does. I try to prevent it from happening. All I can do is my best.